Sex Toys For Men: The Ultimate Guide

Victoria Scott - 28 May 2020

It's been almost 40 years since Cyndi Lauper showed us that when the working day is done, girls just wanna have fun, but who says that girls should be the only ones tickling their fancy at the end of the day? 

Certainly not the sex toy industry, which has spent the past several years proving that men, too, wanna have fun--and offering those men countless ways to do so. 

If you’re a man looking for ways to expand your sexual horizons, look no further! With your pleasure in mind, we have compiled the Ultimate Guide to Male Sex Toys. From masturbators, to rings, to beads, to massagers, we’ve got you covered--or, rather, uncovered and plugged, so to speak.

Keep scrolling to read our list of top male sex toys that accommodate both couples and solo play, and are sure to keep you busy and satisfied. 

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Cock Rings

When Beyoncé told men to "put a ring on it," we're pretty sure she meant an engagement ring, but why not try putting on a cock ring as well? After all, it’s more affordable, easier to clean, and--we’re convinced--will bring just as much joy to you and your partner.

Simply put, cock rings are rings, usually made from silicone or metal, that are placed on the penis to help retain blood. Especially if you’re a sex toy novice, cock rings are a great place to start getting a feel for what you like.

Perfect Fit Xact-Fit Play Zone Cock Ring Kit

The perfect toy for those new to cock rings, the Perfect Fit Xact-Fit cock ring set offers men a set of nine different cock rings targeted to fit your exact size. Crafted from high-quality silicone, these rings are body-safe, frictionless, and easily washable. With a 2.5mm size difference between each ring in the set, you’ll have a great time customizing your play to find the exact level of grip you desire.

Even better, if you seek only one or two sizes, you can visit the Perfect Fit online store to purchase your specific size in packs of two. 

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LELO Tor 2 Vibrating Cock Ring 

So, you’ve given standard cock rings a shot and feel ready to (literally) turn things up a notch. Enter LELO’s Tor 2: the ultimate vibrating cock ring. This global bestseller boasts more powerful vibrations than any product of its kind, with six pleasure settings from teasing murmur to strong pulse. Made from smooth silicone, this toy is 100% waterproof and easily rechargeable by USB. Safe for use anywhere, this cock ring is your answer to self-pleasure and partner orgasms. 

Anal Beads

If cock rings felt good, wait until you try out anal beads! Perfect for solo or partner play, anal beads resemble beads on a string, that often differ in size. Because the anus is packed with nerve endings, anal stimulation can help you reach the height of orgasm. 

With anal beads, you can experiment with insertion and removal, to figure out what type of stimulation feels the best to you. Check out some of our favourite beads below.

Colt Buddy Balls Anal Beads

Colt Buddy Balls

Coming from one of our favourite male sex toy brands are Colt's Buddy Balls. Affordable, pliable, and durable, these beads are made from body-safe silicone and crafted with a cock ring at the end, to enable both easy removal and extra stimulation. 

Rocks-Off Petite Sensations Pearl

If you’re looking to up the ante of your bead play, look no further. Rocks-Off has you covered with their Petite Sensations Pearl: a set of vibrating anal beads that range from petite to large, depending on your level of comfort. With three powerful vibrational speeds and four vibrational options, this toy will leave you quaking.

Peachy Bum

Butt Plugs

Similar, but distinct from anal beads, butt plugs are just what they sound like: a plug for your anus. Most anal sex toys available these days are made with a flared base to prevent it from getting stuck in your rectum, making them a safe toy to use as you get a sense for the type of stimulation that feels good to you. 

If you're not quite ready to experiment with prostate massagers (more on these below), but want to experiment with anal stimulation, butt plugs are a great toy to start with.

Satisfyer Booty Call

Hands down, one of the most affordable and beginner-safe anal plugs you can buy is Satisfyer's Booty Call. Offering three distinct shapes, including bead, bulb, and swirl, this set of three butt plugs is made from ultra-soft medical-grade silicone, ensuring your play will be both versatile and safe. Because each plug is attached to a ring grip, the beads are easily removable and therefore ideal for beginners' play and anal training.

Rocks-Off Ibex

Actually a butt plug and cock ring duo, the Rocks-Off Ibex is one of our most highly recommended toys for anal play. Ergonomically crafted with a flared base and covered in pleasure nodules, this butt plug features 10 vibrational settings to be used alone, or with the accompanying cock ring. With 120mm of insertable plug length, this toy will drive you to the height of ecstasy.

Rocks-Off Ibex Vibrating Butt Plug And Cock Ring Kit on Tantalize Me

Prostate Massagers

If you've been hearing rumours about your G-spot and wondering how to stimulate yours, then prostate massagers are for you. Stimulating your prostate, also known as the 'male G-spot,' is the quickest way to anal orgasm. If your body has a prostate, this is a sex toy you'll want to keep in your nightstand. 

Rocks-Off Falex

No sex toy treasure chest is complete without an anal wand, and the Falex by Rocks-Off sure knows how to deliver. Providing up to three hours of uninterrupted pleasure, this rechargeable silicone prostate dildo has it all: 12cm of insertable shaft, a flared base with sensory ridges, 10 powerful vibration settings, and a curved tip for precise prostate stimulation. Really, what more could you need?

Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager on Tantalize Me


We really can’t rave enough about LELO-brand toys. And just when we thought this leading sex toy manufacturer couldn’t get any more innovative, they gave us the Lelo HUGO: a hands-free remote control prostate massager. With two powerful motors in the base and tip of the dildo, this toy can be wirelessly controlled, offering the apex of couples play. Especially in times like these that demand social distancing, the HUGO can offer you explosive orgasms from six feet away. 

Male Masturbators

Last but not least in our Ultimate Guide To Male Sex Toys are male masturbators. These toys' name gives them away: male masturbators are handheld sleeves meant to simulate oral, vaginal, and anal sex.

Our favourite sex toy producer for male masturbators is, by far, Fleshlight. Keep reading to get a taste of our favourite male masturbator toys for both solo and partner play.

Fleshlight Flight Pilot

Just when we thought this brand's toys couldn’t get any better, Fleshlight made the Flight Pilot--a newly designed self-pleasure sleeve with a texture and suction so realistic you'll swear you're flying with a co-pilot. This masturbator has 15cm of insertable length and is crafted from Fleshlight's patented SuperSkin material that provides hyper-realistic sensation. If you’re seeking to make your masturbation more explosive, this toy is a great bedside companion.

Fleshlight Quickshot

Similar to the Flesh Pilot, but with an open-ended design, the Fleshlight Quickshot is one of the few male masturbators that can also be used with a partner during oral sex. Because of its versatility, it’s one of our favourite male pleasure toys. Its wave-like texture is a signature of Fleshlight toys, and this new design allows for very easy cleaning between uses. If you’ve been wanting to try out a male masturbator with your partner, this is the toy for you. 

Guys Just Wanna Have Fun… And Stay Healthy

Now that you've read through our Ultimate Guide To Sex Toys For Men, we hope you feel inspired to take advantage of the many ways that you can expand your bedroom play to meet you wildest fantasies.

However, no guide to male sex toys would be complete without a quick warning about sexual health and safety. If you're playing with another partner and sharing toys, please remember to exercise safe sex and hygiene practices. 

Many prostate massagers and male masturbation toys can be easily used with a condom, the same way you would apply a condom during penetrative sex. 

For these toys, as well as anal beads and butt plugs, be sure to find a comfortable, body-safe lubricant that works for you. 

Make sure that you wash all anal toys with warm water and soap immediately after each use, especially when using these toys with a partner and switching users during your playtime. You should also be mindful to wash any lubrication bottles or other items you’ve touched after removing your anal toy. 

For a complete guide on how to clean your sex toys, then look no further! Until then, play safe and have fun!

Lovingly, Victoria xoxo

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